I am in a relationship but somehow I came to know that my boyfriend is an active user of some online dating websites, What shall i do
One of our common friend has even told me that he spends several hours in these websites and i hate this. And I trust my common friend he will never lie to me. I am very upset 🙁
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IF you and your boyfriend follow God principle of how to have a wonderful relationship
as being husband and wife,serving God and living according to manual how a husband
should love his wife and a wife should be submitted to her husband bringing up your children
in the fear of the lord, you going to get all the attention, you first has to make that move by giving your
heart to Jesus Christ and then God is going to prepare the right man to give you and you alone affection.
hey….recently i found out myself dat my boyfriend too was using such sites… i found them out myself! i was v.hurt and disgusted!!and really my mind was made up…and i left him. for about 2weeks or so we were apart…then he begged for apology from me,and vowed never to do such things again.he even cried. you too can do such thing…leave him…and stop all contact with him for few days.just see whether he is genuine enough to get u back in his life or not.see how much he tries to gain your apology..and how hard he tries to win u back.and if u are fully convinced that he has changed and never going to repeat these,and he truly loves u…then only forgive him!
Your boyfriend has some certain degree of untrustworthy. To treat him fairly since you have been together, warn him to block such sites and stop using them. Its not because you are jealous, it’s because you love him. If he still keeps doing this then dump him before he dumbs you.
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As you said you came to know that your boyfriend is using a dating website and he is spending hours on this. That means he is not giving enough time to you or may be he is ignoring you. Ofcourse using such websites is not good. You have not mentioned since when you two are in a relation.
Anyways, there is always two sides of a story. One of your common friend told you these things and you are trusting him. See in my opinion you should watch your boyfriend’s activities for some time. Try to analyze things on behalf of his behavior. You should yourself find out that he is really doing all these stuffs or not, you can ask him directly. It may also be possible that your common friend is lying to you. May be he has some second thoughts in his mind, you never know.
So, in my opinion don’t trust anybody blindly.use your brain, judge things and then take any step.
Just warn him to stop all this and if he doesn’t then leave him because someday he will dump you he is not trustworthy.
hey….recently i found out myself dat my boyfriend too was using such sites… i found them out myself! i was v.hurt and disgusted!!and really my mind was made up…and i left him. for about 2weeks or so we were apart…then he begged for apology from me,and vowed never to do such things again.he even cried. you too can do such thing…leave him…and stop all contact with him for few days.just see whether he is genuine enough to get u back in his life or not.see how much he tries to gain your apology..and how hard he tries to win u back.and if u are fully convinced that he has changed and never going to repeat these,and he truly loves u…then only forgive him!
Your boyfriend has some certain degree of untrustworthy. To treat him fairly since you have been together, warn him to block such sites and stop using them. Its not because you are jealous, it’s because you love him. If he still keeps doing this then dump him before he dumbs you.
eAnswers Team
As you said you came to know that your boyfriend is using a dating website and he is spending hours on this. That means he is not giving enough time to you or may be he is ignoring you. Ofcourse using such websites is not good. You have not mentioned since when you two are in a relation.
Anyways, there is always two sides of a story. One of your common friend told you these things and you are trusting him. See in my opinion you should watch your boyfriend’s activities for some time. Try to analyze things on behalf of his behavior. You should yourself find out that he is really doing all these stuffs or not, you can ask him directly. It may also be possible that your common friend is lying to you. May be he has some second thoughts in his mind, you never know.
So, in my opinion don’t trust anybody blindly.use your brain, judge things and then take any step.
Just warn him to stop all this and if he doesn’t then leave him because someday he will dump you he is not trustworthy.
hey….recently i found out myself dat my boyfriend too was using such sites… i found them out myself! i was v.hurt and disgusted!!and really my mind was made up…and i left him. for about 2weeks or so we were apart…then he begged for apology from me,and vowed never to do such things again.he even cried. you too can do such thing…leave him…and stop all contact with him for few days.just see whether he is genuine enough to get u back in his life or not.see how much he tries to gain your apology..and how hard he tries to win u back.and if u are fully convinced that he has changed and never going to repeat these,and he truly loves u…then only forgive him!
Your boyfriend has some certain degree of untrustworthy. To treat him fairly since you have been together, warn him to block such sites and stop using them. Its not because you are jealous, it’s because you love him. If he still keeps doing this then dump him before he dumbs you.
eAnswers Team
As you said you came to know that your boyfriend is using a dating website and he is spending hours on this. That means he is not giving enough time to you or may be he is ignoring you. Ofcourse using such websites is not good. You have not mentioned since when you two are in a relation.
Anyways, there is always two sides of a story. One of your common friend told you these things and you are trusting him. See in my opinion you should watch your boyfriend’s activities for some time. Try to analyze things on behalf of his behavior. You should yourself find out that he is really doing all these stuffs or not, you can ask him directly. It may also be possible that your common friend is lying to you. May be he has some second thoughts in his mind, you never know.
So, in my opinion don’t trust anybody blindly.use your brain, judge things and then take any step.
Just warn him to stop all this and if he doesn’t then leave him because someday he will dump you he is not trustworthy.